I prefer the 2-piece system, one in which the wafer and bag are separate pieces. The reason is that you can turn the wafer the exact angle that you want it and have the bag connected to hang at the angle you want. I used the flat wafers, but others may require tapers, depending on the contour of their belly. I usually preferred the wafers that I could cut to size. They seemed to keep their shape and stick a little better than the mold-able wafers. As far as the bags I really liked the ones with a cloth mesh backing. They didn't seem to stick to the skin as much. Although, with time you get used to having the plastic bag on your skin. I also liked the built in gas-permeable filter vent (Hollister sells one). The advantage of the vent was not having to burp the bag as often to release gas buildup. It is important to remember to cover the vent with the sticker it comes with whenever you bath or shower. If you don't cover it and it gets wet from the outside, not only will it not vent gas very well, but it will also start to leak liquid out the filter. So put the sticker on, when you shower, take it off when you're done. Enough about my wafer and bag preferences Let's talk about changing the wafer and bag.
Get several warm, wet washcloths ready and a small dry towel as well. You will need these later. I recommend sitting on the toilet when you change the bag. That way the mess can fall into the toilet. You may find that certain times of the day you have little or no drainage (based on when you last ate). It's a good idea to time changes for those times. First remove the old bag. You can just pull it off, but after doing this a couple times your skin will get very irritated and will probably get sores as well. Use adhesive remover. I really preferred the alcohol-free adhesive remover as it did not burn. Some of these even have a nice citrus scent to them. Once the bag and wafer are removed gently wipe the area with a wet washcloth to remove any pieces of the wafer or adhesives that remain behind. If you have used stoma paste it will likely be quite messy. If you plan on using paste again, it is alright to leave some paste on the skin. So get off what comes easily. Scrubbing too long will just irritate your skin. If you do NOT plan on using paste, then leaving paste behind will make the area less flat and harder to stick too. You will need to remove all the past in this case. Be patient, the warm wet washcloths will do the trick.
Next get your wafer ready. (You may eventually do this prior to removing the old one, once you get good at eyeballing the size.) If you choose the wafer that needs cut, first cut it to size. Be careful to make smooth cuts and be sure to leave just enough gap that the wafer will not actually touch the ostomy. If it touches the ostomy, especially with rough cuts, it will irritate the ostomy and make it bleed. If you use a moldable wafer, then mold it to the right size by rolling the extra material over the top of the wafer. If you roll it underneath it will not adhere properly. Once you've got the wafer cut, get it warm. It will stick much better when it is warm. So stick it under your thigh or armpit while you get the site ready.
To get the skin ready you need to remove any hair. You may get away with this step every-other change. You may get away with this step even more frequently if you are a female or don't have much hair on your belly. Do NOT use alcohol based shaving cream. It will burn the skin. The best way I know of is to sprinkle baby powder on the area (not on the stoma itself) and use a disposable style razor to shave. The baby powder will act as lubricant and will not burn the skin. If you do not shave off the hair, it will hurt next time you remove the wafer. It may also cause sores from pulling the hair. Once you are done shaving, clean the area with one of the warm wet washcloths. Then pat it dry with the towel. You are almost ready to apply the wafer and bag.
Use a skin prep to get the skin ready. The skin prep protects the skin from moisture and also makes the adhesive stick better. This leads to less skin irritation. Once you are done with that carefully sprinkle stoma powder around the stoma on any sore areas. Do NOT sprinkle it directly on the stoma. Your stoma needs to be moist and pink, not dried out by the stoma powder. Gently rub it in the areas that need it with your finger or a cotton swab. If you sprinkle too much of this on, the wafer will not stick well, so only use it where needed.
Now to apply the wafer and bag. It is easier to connect the bag before the wafer is pasted on your skin. Connect the bag, being sure to turn it the way you would like it. Next peel off the backing from the wafer. Hopefully you have been warming the wafer up so it sticks well. Next, spray some adhesive on the wafer. Hollister sells this in a small can. It doesn't take much of this, just enough to get some on the entire wafer. Let the adhesive dry a little so that it is tacky to the touch. If you do not let it dry enough (or too much) it won't stick very well. Once it's tacky stick it on your skin. If your stoma leaks while you are waiting for the adhesive to get tacky, clean and dry the area and apply some more skin prep. Then add spray to the wafer and let it get tacky. One trick I found when applying the wafer to my skin was to sit up really straight to stretch out the skin on my belly a little. I found if I didn't do this, the wafer may pull off the first time I stretched.
Your directions may require additional steps to place barrier rings prior to putting on the wafer. The purpose of those is to make your skin more flat so that the flat wafer will stick properly without a gap underneath it.
How do you know when to change the bag again? With practice you will find what works for you. The wafer will generally stick well for 3-5 days. If you are at the end of the time that usually works for you, change the bag. You don't want to find it coming loose at an inconvenient time. I could always tell my wafer was starting to get a little leak under it because it itched. To protect your skin, always change it if it starts leaking and use skin prep. In an emergency (like if I was out in public and knew it was getting leaky) I would stick some stoma paste under the wafer where needed. I only used that as a temporary fix, because it was so sticky and hard to get off of the skin. It's a really good idea to always take a small bag of supplies and a plastic bag for your trash with you. You never know when you may need it.
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